Fight Nice.



Recently, I have been thinking about two friends and the causes they advocate.  Let me introduce you to these women and their causes.
Friend One:  A beautiful woman of God.  She loves yarn and creating beautiful things from it.  She loves the LORD and His church.  She is a professional writer.  She is a wife, and sister in Christ.
But she is also an out spoken advocate for body Image acceptance.

Friend Two:  She is a beautiful woman of God.  She loves the Lord with all her heart.  She is a wife and a mother.  She has her own business and is very "crunchy."  But she advocates for the Fight against Childhood obesity.

Both these friends are intelligent, beautiful, and large in body size.  Both of these woman believe in eating a healthy diet and living an active life style.  Both of these woman love the Lord, and truly believe in the cause that they fight for.  So, is one or both of them wrong or right?

 



What is the Body Image Acceptance movement?
 Basically, it is a cause to educate people that everyone should be loved and accepted no matter the way their body looks.  Fat, skinny, short, tall, dark skinned, light skinned,  male, female, bald, hairy, etc.  No matter how one looks they should be treated with the same love, acceptance, and respect as anyone else.  Sounds like a good cause for a Christ woman to support.
But, like all good causes there are extremists in this movement.  There are those that think to teach this message affectively we should not tell our daughters that their bodies are beautiful, rather only focus on their brains.  There are those who think those who diet and/or exercise (too much) are uneducated and need to be educated to accept themselves.  There are those who think if I say I am proud of losing a few pounds than I a not accepting of who I am.

 



What is the cause for the fight against childhood obesity?
This is a fight to teach children to eat healthy and live healthy lives so as not to become overweight due to lack of proper health.  Again, there are extremists in this movement too. 

Why are these two friends on my mind?  Why are their causes so dear to them?  Are they at odds with each other?

Here is my two cents worth on these things.

These are both great causes.  We need to love and accept ourselves and others the way that God made us.  We also need to love children enough to educate them and their parents about good health care.

But here is the problem I have.  People don't just want to advocate for a cause, no, they are out looking for those who are not on the same page as them.  They are looking to be offended by others whom don't agree with them.  So, then when they hear someone talking about fitness, weight lose, eating habits, obesity, etc. their ears perk up.  They are listening for things that agree or disagree with their opinion.  I wonder if instead of listening with judgmental ears and looking with judgmental eyes, if we try and look and hear things from God's perspective then we will be more affective in our cause.

I can not assume that that over weight boy is being neglected and not taught good health, just because he is overweight.  Likewise, I can not assume just because someone is excited about losing a few pounds that they don't have a healthy self image.  Extreme weight lose or gain is something to be concerned about.  Poor health habits is something to be concerned about.  Excessive exercise and dieting is something to be concerned about.  But, if I lose weight due to a truly healthy life style change, and I am proud of that, there is nothing wrong with my self image.  If I put on a few pounds due to a healthy lifestyle change, I can also be pleased with that.

 

I know many beautiful people whom are large, and I know many not so beautiful people whom are large.  I know many beautiful people whom are thin, and I know many not so beautiful people whom are thin. 

What's my point?

Let's stand up for what we believe in, but let's make sure we love others with Christ love as we do it.

Luke 6:27-38
²⁷ “But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, ²⁸ bless those who curse you, pray for those who ^[o]mistreat you. ²⁹ Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also; and whoever takes away your ^[p]coat, do not withhold your ^[q]shirt from him either. ³⁰ Give to everyone who asks of you, and whoever takes away what is yours, do not demand it back. ^31 [r]Treat others the same way you want ^[s]them to treat you. ³² If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. ³³ If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. ³⁴ If you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners in order to receive back the same amount. ³⁵ But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, ^[t]expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men. ^36 [u]Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
³⁷ “Do not judge, and you will not be judged; and do not condemn, and you will not be condemned; ^[v]pardon, and you will be pardoned. ³⁸ Give, and it will be given to you. They will ^[w]pour into your lap a good measure—pressed down, shaken together, and running over. For by your standard of measure it will be measured to you in return.”

Lots of links for Homeschoolers

Handwriting links:

http://www.kidzone.ws/cursive/q.gif

http://www.confessionsofahomeschooler.com/blog/2012/10/a-z-cursive-handwriting-worksheets.html
(this site has lots of other free printables)

http://www.tlsbooks.com/handwritingworksheets.htm

http://www.softschools.com/handwriting/cursive/

http://donnayoung.org/penmanship/cursive-words.htm

http://www.handwritingworksheets.com/flash/cursive/ make your own handwriting sheets.

Bible memory:

http://fighterverses.com/resource/verse-card-maker/
(make your own memory verse cards.)

Math links:

http://www.mathinenglish.com/SkillsII.php

http://www.cimt.plymouth.ac.uk/projects/mepres/primary/default.htm

http://www.mathabc.com/
this site has free printables and free activities online.

http://www.glencoe.com/sec/math/prealg/mathnet/pr01/act_01/stguide.htm
free pre-algebra printables

http://www.homeschoolmath.net/worksheets/basic-operations-worksheets.php
math worksheet generator

http://www.mathsisfun.com/worksheets/kindergarten.php

Multiple resource sites:

http://www.mamaslearningcorner.com/language-arts/copywork/


Website with links to popular curriculum:
http://debbiesdigest.blogspot.com/p/favorite-websites.html

Graduation requirements for Hirn Homeschool



Recently, I have been asked about our graduating process.  Daniel and TylerAnn are both seniors this year.  So people have asked about their plans following this year, and what it means to graduate from our school.  To be honest, it means nothing.  You see we are not raising students for diplomas, college, or even careers.  We are raising students in the Word for Kingdom Work.  So, even though we say that Daniel and Tyler Ann our seniors, that is just a label for society purposes.  Church, sports, etc.  Both Daniel and TylerAnn have no plans to leave home after this year.  In fact, they plan to continue in their studies here at home with us.  We are raising each of our children to follow Christ wherever He is leading them.  This will look different for each of them. 

 

 



So for Tyler Ann and Daniel that means for right now they will continue to be at home for the next couple of years and continue in their studies here.  Why?  Because we changed our schooling three years ago, and they want to get all the teaching in.  The study that I am writing takes a student through the Word of God chronologically in four years.  Both Tyler and Daniel want to complete this study with us.  On top of that, we only started copying the Bible two years ago.  One of the requirements to say that you finished Hirn Homeschool is to copy the whole Bible.  Daniel and Tyler have not had enough time to get the whole Bible done, and so they have a great desire to finish this work too. 
Many people have asked what we mean by Copying the Bible.  I have blogged about copy work before, but I will try and explain it step by step for those who are wondering about it.

Copying the Bible into Notebooks a Five Step Process

Step one:  Read it
Student reads Genesis chapter one to themselves, quickly like a story.  This is NOT study the Bible time.

Step Two:  Copy it
Student copies Genesis chapter one.  Word for word, letter for letter, punctuation for punctuation.

Step three:  Draw it
Student draws a picture of chapter one of Genesis.

Step four: Journal it
Student does a one page journal entry on Genesis chapter 1.

Step Five:  Correct it
Student exchanges their notebook with another student and they carefully go over the copy work to check for errors.  Students then use white out to correct any errors.

This process is then repeated for every chapter in the whole Bible.  Typically this process takes about one hour per chapter.   We copy at 7 am and 7 pm daily.  That means that typically a student will copy two chapters a day.  Sometimes depending on the content of the chapter, and depending on the ability of the student more chapters can be done in two hours a day. 

The goal is NOT to have wonderful neat notebooks full of God's Word, nor is it to have great journal entries, or beautiful artwork.  No the goal of this five step process is to put God's Word deep into the minds and heart of the student.  This slow deliberate process causes them to truly think and focus on God's Word. 

We then use this copy work to discuss grammar, spelling, punctuation, poetry, character, science, and of course, history.  We use it also for memory work, and more. 



A student usually starts copying their officially copybook at around age ten.  Before this we practice copywork and use the practicing to teach phonics, alphabet, sight words, and numbers.   We use our practice work for memory work.

 



If you want to read more about why we copy here are some posts I wrote about it.

Teaching the Bible

Practical Steps to Godly Education

How to teach reading with the Bible

Creating Disciples or Drama?

So these last couple of weeks our senior pastor has being preaching on Mark chapter 13. This is an awesome passage of scripture that happens to be mistaught often. So, it has been a real pleasure to listen to Pastor Bob, simply proclaim the truth of what this passage is saying. During these same few weeks, the Lord has been working on my heart in many areas. One of those areas happens to be in regards to being Torah observant. You see our family isn't 100% Torah Observant, but we are definitely what I call Torah Aware. After studying the Torah in depth as a family we came to realize that what is written in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.)is true for us today. So, we decided to start seeking truth from all of God's Word. As we began our journey, we became involved in a new community of believers. The Messianic group of believers, Torah Followers. This new group of people came on strong. They had a desire to find righteousness and live it. It was inspiring, encouraging, and overwhelming to learn and grow with these people.

Soon we found ourselves confused and even unsure of how our lives should be lived in light of this new discovery of applying all scripture to our lives. Every time, I became confused or overwhelmed the Lord would show me in His word that He was with me and would guide us every step of the way. Often he would take me back to the book of Romans and remind me that obedient living was only found in abiding in Christ alone. That it would not be my works, but the work of Christ in me that would bring forth true righteousness.

So, I journey on in obedience as best I can. I find myself noticing everything around me in a new way. Everyone seems to be on a mission, have a cause. Often they are good and maybe even righteous causes, but I wonder is this or that something I should be concerned with. (Causes like abortion, homosexuality, living according to Old testament law, awareness of body identity, etc, etc. ) But as everyone is shouting and calling for their cause to be heard, all I can hear is the LORD saying , “Go and make disciples of all nation.” What do all these causes have to do with making disciples? I wonder to myself have I forgot what is most important? Have I got caught up in worrying about all the wrong things?

Then yesterday Pastor Bob, preached on this verse in Mark 13:10, “The gospel must first be preached to all the nations.” Jesus is speaking to his disciples and telling them that He will not return until all the people groups of the world have heard of Him. Pastor Bob used this one verse to remind me that our first calling as believers, disciples, is to make more disciples. Jesus final words to his followers wasn't to be separate from the world, but it was the exact opposite. It was, “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:19-20

As we left church, I said to Jeremy that I was starting to realize what God was trying to tell me. It is good to want to live a right life, but more than that I need to be about spreading truth to others. As I was thinking on that yesterday afternoon, I happened to read two wonderful articles in a magazine I get call Messiah Magazine. The first was about how the Messianic Gentile movement has forgotten about evangelism, and how to truly follow Christ we must not forget to evangelize. The second was about how to evangelize without using fear or shame, but through building relationships. I loved that right when I was wondering how God wanted me to apply what He was showing me through his word, he gave me some clear answers.

You see making disciples is more than just sharing the Gospel message. Making disciples is a life investment. Jesus didn't just touch the people and move on, no he invested in his disciples lives. He taught them how to live truly righteous lives through His power. So whom should I be investing in? Of course, the first and most obvious answer is those whom I share daily life with. As I live day to day with my husband and children, it is my job not only to live the gospel, but to help them grow as disciples of Christ. Next of course, is those in my church body. I am to grow together with them in faith and mature together as disciples of Christ. But what about the lost, those nations that haven't heard? IS it my job to reach them? The answer is yes. Does that mean I should get my bags packed and get on a plane? No. That is not the calling God has for me, but I can get on my knees daily for those people. I can have less, to give more to those who are called to go make disciples in remote areas of the world. I can raise children whom God may call to preach and teach His word far and abroad.

So, I can't say I have it all figured out, but I have realized something these past weeks. I have come to realize that yes God wants me to read, study, and live His Word, all of it. He wants me to be obedient to His commands, all of them. He wants to use me to make disciples of Him. How awesome is that? I am so glad that God wants me, wants to use me, and wants to transform me into the woman He intends for me to be. I am grateful that if I seek Him he will discipline me, guide me, correct me, and mold me into just that woman. Though my flesh is weak, He is strong and will do just as He set out to do. My prayer is that you to will know that you can do all things through Christ as well.

Blessings in Christ Jesus!

Hard at Work on this Hot day

Our wonderful landlord had crushed cement delivered yesterday for our windy driveway.  Brenden was hired to spread it.  I didn't think to take pics til halfway through.  But here is a few shots of him and his crew hard at work.
Jer took all the big kids to a music/art festival, so it is just Brenden and the little boys.  Bekah has been helping too, but at the time I took the photos she was putting Anna down for a nap.

 Davey and Josh are using the sled to load up stone to move it to the top of the drive.

 When I took this picture of Davey, he had to be his dramatic self and told me that the rope was really hurting his hands to pull it.  (This of course, wasn't an issue until he saw me, lol.)

 Brenden found the snow shovel a more useful tool at times than the rakes.

 Working the rake.

 Jeremiah pushing the stone towards the sled.

 Zach gathering tools.

 Davey checking in with the supervisor, Brenden.

 Time for a slurpee break.

 Time to cool off.

This is where one of the big piles was at, they are  still working it down.

Working the curve, another pile.

 

Bekah and Anna helping throw stones from the grass to the driveway.

 Ready for a break already.

 

Brenden heading back to it, even though his crew abandoned him.

What's growing in the Garden?

It is less than five weeks until baby boys due date.  Our garden is growing large, and we are busy teaching and learning new things this summer. 

Here is a few pictures of our garden now. 

 Garden Boxes, great for lettuce and onions.

 Hot peppers in garden boxes.

 Green beans.

 We cut the lettuce yesterday, and it is already sprouting up again.

 Green onions, in box.

 Over flowing corn pallet.

 The carrots are getting big.

 We laid the empty pallets out, so to keep the ground clear for a bigger garden next year.

 Our tomato plants are huge.

 They have not grown even one tomato.

We have enjoyed eating peppers, green beans, zucchini, onions, and lots of lettuce from it so far.  The carrots are almost ready for picking, and for some reason our tomato plants are huge, but there isn't even one tomato on them.  Our corn is taking over, and we are excited to harvest it in a couple months. 
What we have learned so far with our first garden.

1. Corn needs a bigger space if you want to plant a lot.  We plan to use the whole garden plot next year just for our corn.  
2.  Pallets are ok for some plants, but it is more ideal to plant squash like plants in their own space.  We will plant our zucks and pumpkins next year in their own plot.
3.  There are lots of tricks to not having to weed all the time.  We plan to use the black paper to create our garden plot next year.  We plan to actually lay it down before winter and then take it up after the thaw.  Then we will turn our dirt and put it back down.  We plan to plant our plants and seeds through it.  We saw several other gardens done in this style and liked it. 
4.  We love the garden box idea for short rooted plants.  We planted our onions and lettuce in boxes.  We have been able to cut and eat them, and then they re-grow again.  We hope to actually create an indoor winter garden with our boxes.  Then we can eat our own fresh produce all year round.  Thinking of trying cabbage in the boxes too.
5.  The biggest thing we learned is sometimes it is more affordable and less time taxing to buy and store other farmers produce.  We realized that berries, potatoes, and other local grown produce can be bought affordably if we pick them ourselves.  Then we can pick a lot and store them in the freezer.  We hope to pick apples  and peaches too.  It not only benefits us, but we also help a local farmer.  BONUS!!!

So, summer marches on, and we are learning from our gardening experience.  God is not only growing are vegetable garden, but we see him at work in the garden of our lives too.  As the big girls, Tyler, Lydia, and Rachel go out and share the love of Jesus with children this summer, we see a harvest ready for reaping.  There are children eager for the Truth of Jesus Christ, and what a joy to know that we can all be a part of building His Kingdom.  As the girls minister outside our home, the boys too are busy growing and maturing.  God is at work in their lives.  We are so excited at how each of them seem to be flourishing under their new responsibilities. 

So, as we all wait and anticipate baby boy joining our family, we keep busy with the work God has laid before us.  And as we work we hope and pray that the Fruit of the Spirit is evident in all our lives and that God alone receives all glory for our maturing lives of Faith.

Mega Family, What?

Recently, a few of my friends have called my family a mega family.  At first, I was like no we aren't that big.  You see since God blessed me with my kids, mostly, one at a time, I never realized how big we are.  It is just everyday life here.  I guess though since, we are expecting baby number thirteen, we are a pretty large family.  So, I was thinking about the questions people ask me all the time about my family.  Here are a few:

How do you do all that laundry?

One load at a time. 
Seriously, we are blessed with a great washer and dryer.  We average about three loads a day of laundry.  Right now, Jeremiah is assigned to laundry duty.  He is nine and that is a great age to start doing laundry.  Every morning after breakfast, he goes around the house gathers any dirty laundry and sorts it.  Then he puts a load in the washer, and folds any laundry from the dryer, and puts it away in the family closet.  He does a second load again after lunch, before dinner, and if needed before bed time.  If there isn't enough to do a load he just skips it, and checks at the next assigned time. 

We will re-wear our clothes if they don't get dirty or smelly, like in the winter months when you tend to stay in more.  We will reuse towels and pj's too, unless they stink.  We just hang them up each morning until they need washed.

Do you use disposable plates, diapers, etc.?

I think is funny what questions people have on their minds, I am not sure I would think of this one myself, but a lot of people do ask it.

Answer:
Not often.

I don't buy paper products except toilet paper.  But if someone blesses us with them, we are so happy and grateful to use them. 
We use cloth diapers most of the time, but again if we get disposable ones as a gift or at a really good discount we will use them.  (It isn't about being green or health, those are bonuses, but for us it is about saving money.)

How do you feed everyone?

This is one of my favorites.  It cracks me up every time someone asks me it.

 Anyway,  we are frugal to say the least.  But, we are also seeking to live a healthy life, and to teach our children good eating habits.  I have been accused of being "crunchy."  So, we make a menu weekly, and stick to it.  We shop local, and no I don't coupon, but I do try and shop smart.  Our monthly food budget is $1000.  We usually stick close to it, some months even spending less.
We eat a mostly gluten free and dairy free diet, we eat fruit, veggies, and meat (we don't buy pork, and we have cut back on beef.)  We try and stick to the no processed foods rule, and read labels, if it has more than five ingredients we  usually don't buy it.  But, we are real people we do eat out on occasion, we do eat pre-packed foods on occasion, and if someone gives us food, or invites us over we never turn it down. 
When we go to the store, we know where everything we normally buy is, and we try and stick to only going to those aisles so to keep from buying things we don't need. 
We eat three meals a day, and often three small snacks as well.  Snacks are usually fruit, potato chips, or pop corn.

The kids enjoy baking and often make bread (we don't buy store bread or cereal, mostly cause of cost), cakes, cookies, candies, etc.  Someone usually makes/bakes something everyday from scratch.
We are growing our first garden this year, in the past we have enjoyed farmers markets and local farms produce, and stock up on it in the Spring and Summer.  We do apples, berries, and corn in the freezer for a year.
We enjoy meal time and eat as a family around the table for each meal.

Do you work?

Another one of my favorites.  I know what they mean is do I work outside of the home, but it always cracks me up anyway. 

No, I don't have any official job outside of home.  We are a licensed respite care provider, and often have extra children in our home, or we go to them to provided a break for their families. 

But, other than that I don't do a job that pays any money.  That is the real question.  People usually want to know if we are a one income family.  Yes, Jeremy is our sole income provider (actually Jehovah Jirah truly is).  God has blessed Jeremy with a great company to work for, and good work to do.  We are always grateful for his job, and the hard work he does at it.


Are they all yours?

What people want to know is did I give birth to all of them.  A better way to ask this question might be to ask how did God bless you with so many children. 

Sometimes when people ask me such questions I am not so polite, and say things like we stole a few.

 But, it isn't a secret that three of our children are adopted (a couple of their stories are here, Daniel, Davey, still working on Lydia's story).  It just is maddening that some people have no tact in asking nosey questions. We are very blessed to have been able to give birth to many children, and also blessed to have been able to adopt as well. 

Do you and  your husband come from big families?

Yes and No

My parents were blessed with three biological daughters, I am the middle of those three daughters.  But, they have also had the privilege to be foster parents to over 300 children over the years.  In our teen years they began adopting some of those foster children and adopted a total of 14.  Two of my siblings have gone home to be with our Lord.  But if your adding that means I am one of 15 living siblings.  We always enjoyed a full house as children, and my siblings and I are very close even now.

Jeremy is the oldest son of his parents.  He has two younger brothers.  Growing up he always had lots of cousins around to play with too.  His family is very close.

Are you Catholic?

Hehe, no. We are not Mormon either.

 We do believe God has asked us to let him decided the number of our children, and even though we have sometimes struggled to trust him in that, we are so very grateful for each and every child He has given us.


Are you going to do one of those reality shows?

No way.  This is so not me.  I have no desire to have a camera in my house and life all the time. If I did do a reality show, people would think it a comedy I am sure. 

Ok, so those are some of my favorite questions people ask me.  Most of them just make me smile and laugh.  But, maybe you have a question you are just dying to ask me.  Go ahead and ask.  I am a curious person, and totally understand.  I can't guarantee a great answer, but I can try my best.